Sister Shivani said do not scold your kid talk about their specialty everyday and see the changes. Parents stop scolding the child on the matter, Sister Shivani gives great learning, your child will accept every thing!

Sister Shivani Parenting Tips: Children are bright at home. Their smiles and mischiefs kill the house. But when these children make mistakes or become careless, often parents get angry and scold them. They feel that the child will improve by scolding. But the reality is different from this. Motivational Speaker BK Shivani believes that repeated scolding makes children more stubborn and silent. In such a situation, if you want your child to listen to you, then you have to make a small change instead of scolding.

What is the effect by repeated scolding?
If you scold the child on every small thing, then fear starts to sit in his mind. He thinks that if anything will speak or will, then you will be scolded. Slowly he starts removing himself from you. Many times the child becomes so silent that his real thinking and feeling also get suppressed. Due to fear, he neither tells his mistake nor wants to consult anyone. Such a child feels lonely and his thinking strength also becomes weak.

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Follow this method instead of scolding
BK Shivani says that the most effective way of improving children is to remind them of their goodness. Every day sit with them for some time and tell them how sensible they are. Remind them how they work responsibly, how they help others and what do they do good. This will make the child feel that you understand him and appreciate him.

These things should be done in daily conversation

“You are a very good child.”
“I am proud of you.”
“You learn something new every day, this is a very good thing.”
“Your behavior is becoming very good.”